Every single program or course geared toward helping you find a relationship will tell you that their program or course works.
They might even offer a money-back guarantee, or a ton of reviews written in such glowing terms that you want to believe but aren’t sure if you’re just being tricked into spending your hard-earned money for little more than hope.
It’s frustrating because what you really want is to have a soulmate relationship, a relationship that looks like #relationshipgoals.
Yet, having that kind of relationship has proven so much harder than anticipated.
I won’t say with absolute certainty that this program will work for you, but I can say with absolute certainty that it did for me. After all, I wrote much of the instructional content in the Premium courses and some of the articles here on the Free Membership side as well.
Using my own experiences, I outlined my journey from failed relationships to a Soulmate Mentality. What’s different about this program is that it doesn’t tell you to change yourself to find true love.
It doesn’t teach you how to make the wrong person fall in love with you or how to make the wrong the relationship become the right one. If it did any of those things, I wouldn’t be on board with it. Courses and programs that do that aren’t real and take advantage of people who are hurting.
I’m a former mental health counselor with a master’s degree and years of experience working with individuals, couples, and families. I’m now a full-time writer. I began working on this project because I loved the idea of helping women like me connect with a Soulmate. Being single and frustrated in the dating world is disempowering.
I wanted to be a part of helping empower women to be healthy and happy in their lives while still achieving their relationship goals.
What makes this program different is that it gives a practical guide to getting from a place of failed relationships to a place of readiness for the right one. You’ll start with learning about the fatal flaws in most relationships.
You’ll probably see some of your past relationships there. You’ll learn about the emotional bank account- what it is and how you’ve probably experienced this in relationships without having a way to articulate it. You’ll explore personal growth as it concerns both partners in a relationship and really delve into why self-love isn’t just a catchphrase but an incredibly important part of a healthy relationship.
You’ll dive deep into communication because most relationships falter from a simple inability to communicate effectively with one another. You’ll learn about your style of experiencing love and how that relates to your partner’s love style. You’ll learn to understand not only how he thinks, but finally be able to communicate how you think and what you need to him.
You’ll learn how to be yourself, build intimacy within a relationship, and pay attention to red flags. You’ll discover an entire section on mental health and its impact on relationships because it’s very real, and we’re not here to sugarcoat the difficult challenges that are present in dating and relationships.
You’ll learn how to empower yourself to move from being a victim of dating to being in charge of your dating outcomes. You’ll spend some time on self-care because you deserve self-love as much as any other. You’ll figure out how to raise your vibration in a meaningful way to be ready for your soulmate.
If this sounds like a lot of information, it is. But it also works. There’s not one aspect of this program that didn’t help lead to meeting my Soulmate.
In fact, I had just gotten to the point where I was raising my vibration. I was deep into being my most authentic self. I had taken a break from dating, and I was focusing on my career as an author and my own interests — not to mention working on the Soulmate Premium Courses. I was busy raising two kids on my own and enjoying my life. Self-care had become a daily practice, and I knew exactly what I wanted in a relationship and had no interest in wasting my time with anything less than that.
Then, there was him.
My one.
We had mutual friends and a shared interest. It began with conversations by phone and online. The conversations lasted for hours and never ran out of steam. He made me think. He made me laugh. He made me wonder.
But then I decided it was impossible because he lived pretty far away from me. I tried to make myself believe that we could just be friends. In fact, I’d nearly convinced myself until a friend who lived in his state invited me to visit. The opportunity to meet in person presented itself, and I wondered.
Actually, since I’m being entirely authentic, I didn’t just wonder.
I worried.
I didn’t want to attach myself to an impossible relationship. I had been clear with everyone that I didn’t want a long-distance relationship. I didn’t like having all these feelings when I just wanted to be happily single.
But the feelings were there nonetheless. All the way up until he walked into the pizzeria where I was waiting for him with my friend. He walked in, and everything in my life shifted into place.
He was just my one, my person, the other half of my soul.
There was instant attraction and chemistry, and we have this banter that doesn’t quit. He still makes me laugh all the time, but he also accepts me exactly as I am- flaws and all.
We have this agreement that we’ll talk about all the things that make us feel vulnerable and insecure. All my work on learning effective communication paid off. It was scary, but I opened up about how anxiety provoking it was to consider a new relationship after so many failed ones. We talked it out. He shared his vulnerability, and I shared mine. We could talk about the serious things, but we also enjoy every moment we spend together.
I started out as a writer on this program in the months before I began these conversations. As our team shaped these courses with someone like you in mind, I was living it.
I was practicing the very ideas that we want to teach you, and when my Soulmate showed up, I was ready for him.
I wasn’t presenting to him the kind of person I thought he’d be interested in, and I wasn’t trying to make him fit into any preconceived idea. I was wholly myself, and I was able to talk to him in a way that I never could in prior relationships.
I can’t say this program will 100% work for you because I don’t know you. I don’t know your heart or your motivations. But I do know that if you put in the time and do the work, your life will be enriched by following the ideas in the articles and the vast amount of information and education in the Premium Membership.
When you draw in that Soulmate and he shows up for you, you won’t fall into old relationship patterns. You’ll be ready for a new relationship paradigm, a stronger relationship that is healthy for you.
And before that happens, if you do the work, you’ll be happy. Not fake-happy to attract a partner. Bone-deep happy with your life. At least, that’s what it was like for me.
I was happy. Happy to be single. Happy to have a life I loved. And then he walked in.
I’m still happy. I don’t question anymore if Soulmates exist.
I know they do.
And I know this program works.
It takes time. But if we invest in ourselves and start showing up in our relationships in a way that is true to who we are, we will see that this program isn’t a scam that will give us a few shortcuts to the wrong relationship. It’s a resource to help us improve our lives so that we’ll be ready for the right one.
Are you ready to find your Soulmate once and for all?
~ Crystal Jackson, MA